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Monday, August 3, 2026
Pathinettam Perukku: Significance, Traditions and the Story of Aadi Perukku Food
Celebrating the River Within Our Homes
Sunday, August 2, 2026
Is Aadi Maasam Really Inauspicious? Meaning and Forgotten Wisdom
Is Aadi Maasam Really Inauspicious?
The Forgotten Wisdom Behind the Sacred Tamil Month
Every year, as the Tamil month of Aadi begins, wedding calendars become quiet, housewarmings are postponed and we hear the familiar statement:
“Aadi is not an auspicious month.”
But can a month filled with prayers, lamps, Goddess worship, temple festivals, overflowing rivers and community feeding truly be inauspicious?
Perhaps Aadi has been misunderstood.
Aadi is not a month without auspiciousness. It is a month in which auspiciousness takes a different form.
Instead of celebrating personal milestones, our ancestors devoted this period to the Divine, to nature and to the forces that sustain life.
Is Aadi Celebrated by All South Indians?
Strictly speaking, Aadi is the fourth month of the Tamil solar calendar and generally falls between mid-July and mid-August.
It is therefore especially important in Tamil Nadu and among Tamil communities across the world.
The corresponding seasonal period is known by different names in other parts of South India -
Ashadha in Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Telangana,
and Karkidakam in Kerala.
The customs are not identical, but many of them share a movement towards prayer, restraint, seasonal discipline and spiritual reflection.
So, while Aadi itself is specifically Tamil, the wisdom behind it belongs to a wider South Indian cultural landscape.
A Sacred Pause, Not an Unlucky Month
Aadi marks the traditional beginning of Dakshinayana, the Sun’s apparent southward movement. In spiritual thought, this begins a quieter and more inward-looking half of the year.
Our ancestors did not treat every season in the same way. There were periods for sowing, periods for harvesting, periods for celebration and periods for prayer. Aadi created a deliberate pause from elaborate personal functions so that people could turn their attention towards worship, agriculture and community life.
Calling Aadi “inauspicious” oversimplifies this beautiful idea. It is more accurate to call it a month reserved for the Divine.
The Agricultural Intelligence Behind Aadi
The Tamil proverb “Aadi pattam thedi vidhai” advises farmers to sow their seeds during the appropriate Aadi season. It reflects generations of close observation of rainfall, soil and crop cycles.
This was not the easiest time to organise long journeys or lavish family celebrations. People were occupied with preparing fields and sowing crops, while seasonal weather could make travel and large gatherings difficult. Postponing weddings and housewarmings therefore had practical wisdom as well as spiritual meaning.
Aadi reminds us that traditions were often calendars of survival. They helped communities use their time, food, labour and natural resources wisely.
Aadi Perukku -When Water Becomes Sacred
The ecological heart of Aadi can be seen in Aadi Perukku, celebrated on the eighteenth day of the month. The word perukku means rising or swelling and refers to rivers rising with monsoon waters.
Families traditionally gather near rivers, especially the Kaveri to offer prayers and express gratitude for water. Women place flowers and lamps near the riverbanks, and families share different varieties of mixed rice.
This is not merely a colourful ritual. It carries a powerful environmental message. Water is not just a commodity that flows from a tap. It is the basis of farming, food and life itself.
At a time when many parts of the world face water scarcity, pollution and unpredictable weather, Aadi Perukku feels remarkably relevant. It teaches us to honour water before we consume it and to protect the natural sources on which our lives depend.
Why Is the Divine Mother Worshipped During Aadi?
The timing is deeply symbolic. When the earth receives rain and begins preparing to produce new life, people worship the Divine Mother as the source of fertility, protection and abundance.
Aadi Fridays and Tuesdays—Aadi Velli and Aadi Chevvai—are considered especially sacred. Women light lamps, offer turmeric, kumkum and flowers, prepare prasadam and pray for the well-being of their families.
These practices also place women at the centre of preserving and transmitting culture. Through kolams, songs, food, prayer and storytelling, traditions travel quietly from one generation to the next.
The Meaning Behind Koozh and Community Feeding
One of the most familiar sights during Aadi is the distribution of koozh at Amman temples. This simple fermented millet porridge is traditionally regarded as nourishing and suitable for the season. Pongal, sundal and other forms of prasadam are also prepared and shared.
The simplicity of the food is significant. Aadi worship does not depend upon luxury. A humble preparation, when offered with devotion and shared freely, becomes sacred.
Community feeding also dissolves social differences. People stand together, receive the same prasadam and experience devotion as a collective rather than a private act. Aadi therefore connects spirituality with generosity.
Why Were Weddings Traditionally Avoided?
There is no need to fear Aadi or believe that the entire month brings bad luck. Several religious and practical reasons came together to create the tradition of avoiding weddings and housewarmings during this period.
The month was dedicated primarily to Goddess worship and temple observances.
Agricultural families needed to concentrate on sowing and related work.
Monsoon conditions could make travel and large gatherings inconvenient.
Families conserved their money, grain and other resources for the important season ahead.
The inward-looking period of Dakshinayana encouraged prayer and restraint rather than elaborate celebration.
Over time, the simple instruction to reserve Aadi for other purposes may have become the stronger statement that Aadi itself was “inauspicious.” The original idea, however, appears far more thoughtful: every activity has its proper season.
Beyond Aadi Pooram
Aadi includes many sacred observances—Aadi Pirappu, Aadi Velli, Aadi Chevvai, Aadi Amavasai, Aadi Perukku, Aadi Krithigai and Aadi Pooram. Each reflects a different aspect of devotion, remembrance, nature or community life.
I have written separately about the significance of Aadi Pooram, the celebration associated with Goddess Andal and her extraordinary devotion to Lord Vishnu.
The wider meaning of Aadi, however, reaches beyond any single festival. The whole month creates a rhythm of gratitude and spiritual awareness.
What Can Aadi Teach Us Today?
Modern life encourages constant activity. We move from one celebration, purchase and achievement to the next, rarely pausing to consider the natural and human systems that make our lives possible.
Aadi asks us to slow down.
It asks us to thank the rain before using the water, remember the farmer before eating the food, honour our ancestors before claiming our achievements, respect feminine energy and share what we have with the community.
Even if our lifestyles have changed, these values have not lost their meaning. In fact, they may be more necessary today than ever before.
Aadi - A Different Kind of Auspiciousness
Aadi Maasam is not empty of joy. Its joy is found in lamps glowing inside temples, rivers filling after the rain, fields receiving new seeds, food being shared and families gathering in prayer.
It is not a rejection of celebration, but a reminder that life cannot be one continuous celebration of ourselves.
Sometimes we must pause, look beyond our individual desires and express gratitude to the Divine and to nature.
That is the forgotten wisdom of Aadi and perhaps its greatest blessing.
#AadiMaasam #TamilTraditions #AadiPerukku #AadiVelli #ShaktiWorship #SouthIndianCulture #SukanyasMusings
Wednesday, July 29, 2026
Creamy Vegetarian Thai Red Curry Recipe | Easy Homemade Thai Curry with Coconut Milk
Creamy Vegetarian Thai Red Curry | Easy Homemade Thai Curry with Coconut Milk
🌶 Homemade Vegan Thai Red Curry Paste
This
homemade Thai Red Curry Paste is packed with red chillies, fresh herbs and
toasted spices. As it does not contain shrimp paste or any other animal-based
ingredients, it is completely vegetarian and vegan.
Ingredients
Dry red
chillies, soaked - 8 to 10
Shallots - 6 to 7
Garlic - 6 cloves
Galangal - 2-inch piece
Fresh ginger - 1-inch piece
Lemongrass - 2 stalks, white portion only
Coriander leaves - 1 handful
Kaffir lime leaves - 3
Red bell pepper - ¼, optional
Coriander seeds - 1½ tablespoons
Cumin seeds - 1 teaspoon
Black peppercorns - ¼ teaspoon
Paprika or Kashmiri chilli powder - 1 teaspoon
Salt - To taste
Oil - 1 teaspoon, optional
Method
Soak the
dry red chillies in hot water for approximately 15 minutes or until they become
soft. Drain them well.
Dry-roast
the coriander seeds, cumin seeds and black peppercorns on low heat until
aromatic. Allow them to cool slightly.
Transfer
the roasted spices to a mixer grinder and grind them into a coarse powder.
Add the
soaked red chillies, shallots, garlic, galangal, ginger, lemongrass, coriander
leaves, kaffir lime leaves, red bell pepper, paprika or Kashmiri chilli powder
and salt.
Blend
everything into a smooth, thick and fragrant paste. Add one teaspoon of oil if
required. Avoid adding too much liquid, as the curry paste should remain thick
and concentrated.
Use
approximately three to four tablespoons of the paste for the Thai Red Curry.
Adjust the quantity depending on your preferred spice level.
Store the
remaining paste in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to three
days. It can also be frozen in small portions for two to three months and used
whenever required.
Vegetarian Thai Red Curry
Vegetables and Tofu
Broccoli
- 1 cup
Cauliflower - 1 cup
Carrots - 1 cup
Yellow zucchini - 1 cup
Brinjal or eggplant - 1 cup
Baby corn - ½ cup
Yellow bell pepper - ½ cup
Red bell pepper - ½ cup
Firm tofu - 1 block
Curry Base
Thai Red
Curry Paste - 3 to 4 tablespoons
Full-fat coconut milk - 400 millilitres
Oil - 1 to 2 tablespoons
Soy sauce - 1 to 2 tablespoons
Brown sugar - ½ teaspoon
Salt - To taste
Kaffir lime leaves - 3 to 4
Fresh Thai basil - 1 handful
Fresh lime juice - To taste
Fresh Aromatics for Enhancing Ready-Made Paste
Shallot -
1 small, finely chopped
Garlic - 2 to 3 cloves, finely chopped
Lemongrass - 1 stalk, white portion finely chopped
Galangal or ginger - 1-inch piece, finely grated
If you
are using the homemade Thai Red Curry Paste, these additional aromatics may be
omitted.
Method
Wash and
cut all the vegetables into bite-sized pieces.
Heat the
oil in a wok or deep pan.
If using
ready-made curry paste, add the chopped shallot, garlic, lemongrass and grated
galangal or ginger. Sauté for one to two minutes until aromatic.
Add the
Thai Red Curry Paste and sauté on low heat for approximately two to three
minutes. Stir continuously to prevent the paste from burning.
Pour in
half of the coconut milk and cook until the curry paste blends beautifully with
it and becomes smooth and aromatic.
Add the
remaining coconut milk and stir well. Allow it to come to a gentle simmer.
Add the
baby corn and carrots first, as they take slightly longer to cook.
Next, add
the cauliflower and brinjal. Cook for a few minutes before adding the broccoli,
yellow zucchini, red bell pepper, yellow bell pepper and tofu.
Cook
until the vegetables are just tender while still retaining their vibrant
colours and a slight crunch.
Season
with soy sauce, brown sugar and salt. Mix gently so that the tofu does not
break.
Add the
kaffir lime leaves and fresh Thai basil. Simmer for another two to three
minutes.
Switch
off the heat and finish with a generous squeeze of fresh lime juice.
Allow the
curry to rest for 15 to 20 minutes so that all the flavours develop
beautifully.
Serve
piping hot with fragrant jasmine rice or steaming basmati rice.
🌿 Tips
🌿 Use full-fat coconut milk
for a rich and creamy curry.
🌿 Avoid overcooking the
vegetables. They should retain their vibrant colours and a slight crunch.
🌿 Adjust the quantity of
Thai Red Curry Paste according to your preferred spice level.
🌿 Add the vegetables
according to their cooking time so that the softer vegetables do not become
mushy.
🌿 Fresh Thai basil and
kaffir lime leaves added towards the end make a huge difference to the aroma.
🌿 Check the ingredients when
purchasing ready-made Thai Red Curry Paste to ensure that it does not contain
shrimp paste or fish-based ingredients.
🌿 The curry tastes even
better after resting for 15 to 20 minutes, as the flavours develop beautifully.
👌🏼
Wednesday, July 15, 2026
Dahi Batata Puri – Mumbai's Irresistible Chaat Delight
Friday, July 10, 2026
Coconut Burfi with Condensed Milk | Easy Nariyal Barfi Recipe
- 3 cups freshly grated coconut
- 200 g sweetened condensed milk
- ½ cup sugar (adjust according to sweetness preferred)
- 2 tbsp ghee
- - ½ tsp cardamom powder
- - 2 tbsp chopped pistachios
- - 2 tbsp chopped almonds
Tuesday, July 7, 2026
Aadi Masam and the Chinese Hungry Ghost Month Two Ancient Traditions, One Season of Reflection
"Two Ancient Traditions, One Season of Reflection"
Living in multicultural Singapore has given me a wonderful opportunity to appreciate the richness of different cultures and traditions. One observation has always fascinated me.
Every year, somewhere around the middle of the year, both the Tamil Hindu and Chinese communities observe a spiritually significant period during which many families traditionally avoid weddings, moving into a new home, starting a new business, or embarking on other major life events.
As someone who grew up with the traditions of Aadi Masam while also witnessing the customs of Singapore's Chinese community, I often wondered....🤔
Why do these two cultures, separated by thousands of kilometres and shaped by different religions, seem to observe such similar practices?
Are they connected?
Or is it simply a remarkable coincidence?
The answer is both fascinating and enlightening.
Similar on the Outside, Different at the Core
Although these traditions appear similar, they arise from completely different beliefs and histories.
Their customs may overlap, but their spiritual foundations are unique.
Aadi Masam
Aadi Masam is a sacred month in the Tamil calendar that usually falls between mid July and mid August.
It is a month devoted to prayer, gratitude, spiritual reflection and the worship of the Divine Mother, Goddess Shakti. Rather than focusing on worldly celebrations, many families dedicate this period to temple visits, charity, devotion and strengthening their spiritual lives.
Chinese Hungry Ghost Month
The Chinese Hungry Ghost Month generally falls between August and September, depending on the traditional Chinese lunisolar calendar.
According to traditional Chinese Buddhist and Taoist beliefs, it is a time when families honour their ancestors through prayers and offerings. It is also traditionally believed that the spirit world is especially active during this month, which is why many families choose to postpone important milestones.
Why Are Weddings Traditionally Avoided?
This is perhaps the most noticeable similarity.
Yet the reasons are quite different.
During Aadi Masam
Many Tamil Hindu families view Aadi as a sacred period dedicated to spiritual growth rather than personal celebration. The emphasis is on prayer, devotion and gratitude, making it a time to look inward before embarking on life's next chapter.
During the Chinese Hungry Ghost Month
Traditional Chinese beliefs hold that the seventh lunar month is a period for honouring ancestors and showing respect to the spirit world. As a result, many families traditionally avoid weddings, moving house or launching new businesses during this time.
Today, many people continue these customs out of tradition, while others choose dates based on personal preference. Practices vary from family to family.
Two Ancient Calendars
Another fascinating difference lies in how each culture measures time.
The Tamil calendar is primarily a solar calendar, based on the Sun's movement through the zodiac. As a result, Aadi Masam usually falls around the same period every year.
The traditional Chinese calendar is lunisolar, combining the movements of both the Moon and the Sun. This causes the Hungry Ghost Month to shift on the Gregorian calendar from year to year.
Despite using different systems, both calendars have guided their communities for centuries.
More Than Superstition
It is easy to dismiss these traditions as superstition.
However, when we look more closely, we discover something far deeper.
Both traditions encourage people to pause.
To reflect before making important decisions.
To honour the divine.
To remember ancestors.
To strengthen family bonds.
To express gratitude.
Whether one follows these customs for religious reasons, cultural identity or simply out of respect for family traditions, they remind us that not every season in life is meant for rushing ahead.
Some seasons are meant for quiet reflection.
What These Traditions Have Taught Me
One of the greatest gifts of living in Singapore is seeing different cultures flourish side by side.
The more I learn about each tradition, the more I realise that while our rituals may differ, our values often meet in beautiful ways.
Both Aadi Masam and the Chinese Hungry Ghost Month teach us humility.
Both encourage respect for those who came before us.
Both remind us that gratitude is as important as ambition.
And both quietly whisper a lesson that our modern world sometimes forgets:
There is a time to celebrate.
There is a time to strive.
And there is also a time to pause, reflect and reconnect with our roots.
Perhaps that is why these traditions have endured for centuries.
Not because they ask us to fear the future, but because they invite us to approach it with reverence, wisdom and gratitude.
#AadiMasam #HungryGhostMonth #TamilTraditions #ChineseCulture #CulturalHeritage #Spirituality #Singapore #SukanyasMusings
Thursday, June 25, 2026
Authentic Falafel Recipe with Creamy Hummus | Crispy Middle Eastern Chickpea Fritters
Monday, June 22, 2026
Mahua Oil (Iluppai Ennai): Traditional Benefits for Skin, Hair & Wellness
Mahua Oil (Iluppai Ennai) – The Forgotten Treasure from Nature's Pharmacy
Long before shelves were lined with expensive beauty products and chemical-laden hair treatments, our grandmothers relied on nature's gifts to care for their skin, hair, and overall well-being.
One such traditional treasure is Mahua Oil, known as Iluppai Ennai in Tamil. Extracted from the seeds of the Madhuca longifolia tree, this nourishing oil has been valued for centuries across India for its remarkable healing and moisturizing properties.
What is Mahua Oil?
Mahua Oil, also called Mohwa Oil, is derived from the seed kernels of the Madhuca longifolia tree, popularly known as the Indian Butter Tree. Native to India, Nepal, Sri Lanka, and Myanmar, this magnificent tree has long been regarded as a blessing for rural and tribal communities.
Almost every part of the tree is useful — its flowers, fruits, seeds, leaves, and bark have been traditionally used for food, medicine, and daily living.
Traditional Uses of Mahua Oil
1. A Natural Moisturizer for Dry Skin
Mahua Oil is rich in essential fatty acids that deeply penetrate the skin and provide long-lasting hydration.
Traditionally, it has been used to:
Relieve dry and flaky skin
Soothe rough elbows and cracked heels
Improve skin softness and suppleness
Maintain healthy, glowing skin
Its emollient nature helps the skin retain moisture, making it especially useful during dry weather.
2. Helps Support Skin Repair
Traditional practitioners have long valued Mahua Oil for its soothing properties.
It is often used to help:
Calm irritated skin
Reduce dryness associated with eczema
Soothe dermatitis-prone skin
Support the natural repair of damaged skin
Its antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties contribute to healthier-looking skin over time.
3. Supports Youthful-Looking Skin💞
Regular application is believed to improve skin elasticity and firmness.
Many traditional beauty remedies use Mahua Oil to:
Reduce the appearance of fine lines
Improve skin texture
Enhance natural radiance
Support a youthful complexion
4. Nourishes Hair and Scalp💆♀️
Our grandmothers often believed that healthy hair begins with a healthy scalp.
Mahua Oil is traditionally used as a hair oil because it:
Deeply moisturizes the scalp
Reduces dryness and frizz
Helps detangle hair naturally
Strengthens hair strands
Minimizes breakage
Regular oiling may help hair appear thicker, shinier, and more manageable.
5. Traditional Massage Oil🫗
Mahua Oil has long been used as a massage oil in many parts of India.
Traditional uses include:
Body massage before bathing
Infant massage in some communities
Joint and muscle massage
Relaxation and wellness therapies
Its rich texture makes it an excellent carrier oil for herbal infusions.
6. Sacred Lamp Oil🪔
One of the lesser-known traditional uses of Iluppai Oil is as a Deepam Oil.
In many South Indian households and temples, Mahua Oil has been used for lighting lamps during religious ceremonies and spiritual practices. It is considered auspicious and forms part of many age-old traditions.
The Remarkable Mahua Tree
Growing up to 20 metres tall, it is recognised by its broad canopy, thick bark, and fragrant creamy-white flowers.
The tree provides:
Edible Flowers🍃
The sweet flowers are collected and consumed fresh, dried, or cooked. In several regions of India, they are also traditionally fermented to prepare local beverages.
Mahua Butter🧈
The seeds yield a rich vegetable fat often called Mahua Butter, which is used in:
Traditional cooking
Soap making
Cosmetics
Confectionery industries
✨️Traditional Medicinal Uses
Various parts of the tree have been used in folk and Ayurvedic practices for supporting general wellness and addressing a range of traditional health concerns.
Livelihood Support 👍🏻
For countless rural and tribal families across India, the Mahua tree remains an important source of food, income, fodder, and sustainable livelihood.
How to Use Mahua Oil
For Skin
Warm a few drops between your palms and gently massage onto clean skin before bedtime.
For Hair💆
Massage into the scalp and hair lengths. Leave for at least one hour or overnight before washing.
For Dry Feet🦶
Apply generously to cracked heels and wear cotton socks overnight.
For Massage
Use slightly warmed oil for a relaxing full-body massage.
A Gentle Word of Caution⚠️
Although Mahua Oil has been traditionally used for generations, every skin type is different. Always perform a patch test before applying any new oil to the skin.
Individuals with existing medical conditions should seek professional medical advice before using traditional remedies.
Dadi Maa Says...👵
"Nature often provides simple remedies that generations before us trusted and cherished. Mahua Oil is one such forgotten gift, nourishing for the skin, strengthening for the hair, and deeply rooted in our cultural heritage."
#DadiMaaKeNuskhe #MahuaOil #IluppaiEnnai #TraditionalRemedies #NaturalSkincare #HairCare #Ayurveda #IndianHeritage #NaturalWellness #SukanyasMusings
Disclaimer: Home remedies are supplementary approaches and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare practitioner for any medical concerns.

















